“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.” – Proverbs 13:12 (NKJV)
Introduction
Life is going to try to slow you down. With that in mind, the wisdom of Proverbs shines through, reminding us to look forward and know that if we persevere, something better is coming. One day our goal will be achieved if we can temporarily put our wants aside and focus.
1. Understanding the Weight of Deferred Hope
When we want something, but cannot have it, the emotional toll is serious. Anyone who. Has sat down to think about how long they will have to work in life may consider this for themselves.
It can be depressing and disheartening to think of how long we have to work a day job before retirement. This makes many people physically sick. Some use this sickness to motivate themselves to free themselves from the need to work a day job. I find this to be a noble pursuit.
There are moments in our lives when dreams are delayed, and aspirations seem out of reach. Those moments can easily send us spiraling into depression.
2. A Tree of Life
However, this verse also shows the satisfaction of reaching a goal and fulfilling a desire, likening them to a tree of life.
Tis is the source from which improvement grows.
3. Generating Resilience
Hope isn’t passive; it’s a force that sustains us through adversity. Romans 12:12 teaches us to be joyful in hope, patient in tribulation, and steadfast in prayer.
Center your mind on your goal so you can aim for what you want to accomplish. Don’t worry if you aren’t where you want to be today. Let go of those attachments – they will only create worry and anxiety.
Practical Exercise
- Reflect: Take time to reflect on areas in your life where goals feel deferred. Journal your thoughts and emotions, allowing yourself to process the difficult thoughts that accompany these realizations.
- Use God’s Wisdom: Spend time in Scripture and learn teachings related to your hopes and desires. Write down verses that resonate with you and meditate on them daily.
- Take Action: Identify small steps you can take towards fulfilling your hopes and dreams. Set realistic goals and commit to consistent effort, trusting in God’s timing and provision.
